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Have You Ever Been Misunderstood by Your Partner?



How many times have you gotten frustrated with your man, because he doesn’t understand what you want.  You get impatient and emotional.

Here some tips that will help you to communicate effectively and ask for what you want:

  1. Get clear on what you want to ask.  Women find out what they want by knowing what they don’t want.
  2. Be direct and ask for what you want. He might say yes or no to your request.
  3. Listen to his response. He will be more connected to you when you are listening.
  4. Don’t react to an answer you don’t want to hear.
  5. Negotiate with words until you both agree to something mutually beneficial.
  6. State how you feel about the decision or solution. “I feel sad because”… or “I feel happy because …”

Remember, communication is very important in a relationship.  It helps by creating a connection between partners. It enables you to share ideas, interests, support each other and negotiate each other’s wants and needs. Good communication actually helps in building a proper understanding in the relationship.


Tips on how to be cherished by your partner

?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????When you choose to be a “feminine” energy your partner “masculine” energy will cherish you.

Successful relationships are an exchange of opposites energies, so the relationship will work by making sure that the two people flow with the energy exchange and don’t step on one another. Instead, they will complement each other bringing harmonious relations.

These are suggestions that will help you to be cherished:

1.    Respect your partner thoughts
He will give you the world.

2.    Follow your partner’s lead
Be confident that your partner is capable and competent to lead.

3.    Accept your partner as he is
He will respond kind and loving when he feels accepted and understood.

4.    Ask for what you want
When you are clear and calm in your request, he will give you what you want. Then you will be happy ,and he will feel like a hero for being able to make you happy.

5.    Express your feelings
Speak up how you feel on any situation or decision that is not comfortable for you.

6.    Own your part
When you admit your part in a situation and own what you’ve done to contribute in a matter-of-fact way, you are taking responsibility instead of blaming.

Remember, when a feminine woman is cherished by her partner she feels respected.


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